Showing posts from January, 2022

Signs & Symptoms, Wide Awake Part V

  If you made it this far, thank you! I know how people get reading about the same topic for too long. We have to keep going for a better high. I have a lot more to share, but it is time to shift. I may come back later to put this all in a book, though. As I stated before, revisiting this was not something I wanted to do, but I feel so much better.  Did anything I say wake you up too? If so, I imagine you are planning your escape too. Do so quietly, do not let anyone in on your plans. You have inner work to do once you get out of prison, but knowing you are free feels terrific. Learn as much as you can to avoid being a repeat offender like I was. There are so many out there and ones you least expect. They have gotten better at fooling people. Remember, they too can appear as an angel of light and deceive the very elect.  Let’s look at some signs and symptoms to make an accurate diagnosis; once you make the diagnosis prescribe them your absence for good.  It does not matter if you ask t

Dear Mama, Wide Awake Part IV

 I allowed a man to reduce me to feeling like I was the most unattractive, disgusting, unworthy woman in the world. And the way I felt inside showed up in everything I put my hands on. I needed to detox more than ever. The very men I have been escaping since childhood, I ended up with a version of them in every relationship. The ones whose mother broke him so well he would never be fit for a woman. She emotionally abandoned him, leaving him for us to deal with his detachments. She ruined him and continues to by not holding him accountable. When will enough be enough? They are so holy, yet they assist with destroying every woman their son brings home. If she can control you, you will be well-liked, but the moment you do not stand for her toxic, patriarchal, manipulative bullshit, you are the enemy. She is the queen narcissist, and she taught him to be just like her. She love-bombed him from the beginning tightening the grip constantly. He fears her, so in those moments where he can see

Identity Theft, Wide Awake Part III

  They have to mimic you because there is nothing there.     I know, Sis, no one believes you. The narcissist has painted a picture that they are an incredible person—I’ve been there, done that! What amazed me was how those who have known me for years believe the words of a narcissist they had only known for a short period. What that said to me was they were never for me or knew me. I questioned my sanity, listening to how well my friends and family spoke of the narcissist. That charm and hero complex hooked them; they knew how to save the day, go out of their way, and pretend enough to convince everyone of one thing while they mentally and emotionally abuse you. Imagine them helping everyone until they are short on cash, then taking it out on you. I completely understand how you feel. Sadly, I have experienced this treatment within my relationships with men, ministry, and friends. Yes, you read that right. Those in the church hide behind “touch not my anointed.”Most of them